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The It’s Just Lunch difference

Private, personalized dating experiences for busy professionals

Meet Face-to-Face

We guarantee you will go out on dates. Face-to-face dates. Real dates. Because that’s the only way to tell if there’s chemistry.

Private Experience

No apps or dating profiles for the world to see. We keep your journey with us confidential.

White Glove Service

From match selection to restaurant reservations, we are your dating concierge. Spend your time dating instead of searching.

Hand-Selected Matches

Feedback from you after your dates helps our professional matchmakers curate your future matches.

Learn more about our signature process

Our premise is simple: a lunch date or drink after work is the ideal first date. It’s a relaxed setting where you can get to know one another. We set up the details of the date—all you need to do is discover if there's chemistry.

Our Process
Your Dating Journey

Tell Us Your Story

We want to know all about you — your hobbies, your profession, your passions — and what you're looking for in a partner.


Match Selection

Our matchmakers use a combination of their intuition and your preferences to carefully hand-select your matches.


Face-to-Face Dates

We'll arrange the details of the date, including the reservation, and then you take from there. Don’t worry, there’s no pressure. It’s just lunch.

Our pledge to you, our client

We treat you as a person, not a website profile. We recognize that each of our clients is unique, and your attributes, experiences, and life goals shape the type of relationship you’re looking for. As such, we are committed to working with you to understand your needs and provide a successful, fun, and productive dating experience.

About Us

To guide you through the It's Just Lunch dating process so you can have a fun, successful dating experience.

To understand your relationship goals and work closely with you to achieve them.

To work with you to identify and provide you with the types of matches that could be right for you. We will honor your preferences for age, religion, and parental status as we personally select your matches.

To only take on those clients we believe we can successfully match-we don't take everyone on as an It's Just Lunch Client.

To treat you in a caring, sincere, empathetic, and professional manner.

To maintain the highest ethical, personal and professional standards possible and follow all applicable laws.

To quickly respond to your questions and needs.

To communicate with you in an open, honest way.

Cheers to 33 years of matchmaking

Since 1991, we've set up millions of first dates for busy professionals worldwide. Our passion, decades of experience, and signature process make It's Just Lunch the #1 Personalized Dating Service in the World.

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“I felt comfortable with the process of just having lunch and knowing that each person was interested in determining if this was someone they were interested in. Our first date was fun, comfortable and easy. The conversation flowed and it was natural. I remember seeing her walk towards me as I was thinking….I hope that’s Lori!”

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